Was it an apology?

I received a phone call yesterday from a long time friend of my mother asking how my mother was doing. Before I could give a reply, my mother’s friend rambled on about her sister and how much work work it is dealing with dementia and she went on to say no one really know what it is like to deal with someone who has dementia until they have to deal with it themselves. Ironically I have been dealing with my mother’s dementia long before I knew it was dementia and this particular friend had been accusing me of making it all up until I received her phone call.